Find it here: http://projectsafephilly.org/safety-tips/bad-date-alert/
The goal of the free yoga class is to create a community that empowers and support women. Yoga is physical postures, meditation, and inquiry. Yoga is body-based work that helps:
- Calm the mind and body
- Increase awareness and safety over one’s body
- Build skills to interpret and tolerate reactions
- Encourage practice of utilizing the breath versus solutions from the outside, i.e. substances, damaging relationships, sex, etc.
Hope to see you there!
The CDC recently confirmed the first known case of woman-to-woman HIV transmission. We’ve known for a long time that women could transmit HIV to men, but this means that women with HIV pose a transmission risk for their female partners.
If you’re having sex with a woman, it’s important to remember that you still need to be safe! You and your partner (be it your lover, your client, or a co-worker) can take steps to reduce your risk of [name the most relevant diseases for this audience], and you don’t have to kill the mood to do it.
1. Use protection!
HIV and other diseases are transmitted through bodily fluids. When two women have sex, the riskiest fluids are blood & menstrual blood, vaginal juices, and fluid from sores. The most important thing is to keep your mucus membranes (like your mouth, anus, and vagina) away from your partner’s fluids. You can do this with a condom or a dam. And be sure not to touch sores like herpes or genital warts.
When you’re having oral sex, use a dam to cover the vaginal or anal area. Don’t be afraid to get creative: some people use garter belts to keep the latex in place so their hands are free to roam. If you don’t have a dam, you can use non-microwaveable plastic wrap or use a condom- cut the elastic part and the tip off with scissors, and then cut down the side. You should have a simple square of latex. For vulva to vulva sex, you can use a similar method- just make sure you use a fresh barrier every time!
If you’re fisting and fingering, watch out for cuts or sores- you can transmit diseases through them. But you can stay safe simply by using a latex glove, condom, or finger cot. And if you’re using toys, you can wash them in soapy water or bleach, or just use a condom on them, and you’re good to go!
S&M practices are generally pretty safe, as long as no bodily fluids are involved. If you’re doing any kind of skin breaking (for instance, piercing needles), you can just clean the tools you’re going to use with bleach. And if you’re shaving each other, use a separate razor for each person.
2. Keep the load low.
If you are HIV+, always use protection, but you’re less likely to transmit HIV when your viral load is suppressed. This can happen when you take medication every day and follow a plan for HIV treatment. Call our case manager if you want more information about where to get connected to free HIV services (866-509-SAFE).
3. Be PrEPared.
PrEP 1 is a pill you can take once a day that will prevent HIV transmission. If you HIV negative and are concerned about contracting the virus, consider taking this medication. If you’re concerned about spreading HIV to your partner, talk to him or her about this drug.
4. When you have to work
If you’re having your period and need to work anyway, remember that menstrual blood does carry HIV. However, you can take steps to protect yourself and others while you work.
Cup it: Softcups are menstrual products that sit inside your vagina and collect blood during your period, rather than a tampon or a pad which absorbs it. This means that something like a Diva Cup would serve as a barrier for menstural blood, preventing your partner from coming in contact with it. Just remember: cups can’t be left in for more than a few hours, and they won’t prevent you from contracting HIV or other sexually transmitted infections.
Fake it til you make it: use your judgement. If you don’t have protection, fake it, and give a performance without the penetration.
5. In Case of Emergency
PEP is a medication you can take immediately after being exposed to HIV that will reduce your risk of becoming infected. If something happened that you did not plan for, go to a local emergency room. They might ask you questions about what happened just to determine what your risk level is, and how much medication you’ll need. Call our hotline with any questions.
Talk with your partners and your dates about safe sex. You know best how to keep your self safe and your body healthy. Use these tips if they work for you – please comment below if you have other suggestions!
Pennsylvania Residents: Follow this link to contact your representative about prevention fatal overdoses!!
At SAFE we are excited that many are discussing the recent study by the Urban Institute about sex workers and managers of sex workers. While we are excited to see so many news outlets talking about sex work, we are weary of any study funded by the National Institute of Justice, who have a vested interest in justifying the criminalization of sex work in all forms. As a service organization we are committed to ending the coercion and economic exploitation of individuals in the sex trade, but believe this can only be achieved by empowering individuals and communities.
Here is some fabulous peer-reviewed scholarship about sex workers. For many of these the work was done by current or former sex workers, or sex worker voices were included not only as tokenized sound bytes but as leading stakeholders in research design and delivery.
Also, check out a review of the article by the Sex Workers Outreach Project here.